Most likely your stupid behavior in the past is the reason why your messages are moderated. Another option is that you've registered on the forums before the forum software was updated (you've registered early 2010 so it is before update) and during the update your user account wasn't properly moved to "Members" state. There have been couple other similar incidents.
Your messages should not be moderated anymore. You should be full "Member" now
I'm pretty sure my stupid behavior wasn't it, rarely did anything here other than add a server. Though the only stupid behavior i would think is the last post i did, cause i am so frustrated that I cant register yet I am and my email is taken. Thank goodness that is over. If i was suspended/banned for something, shouldn't my account say something about that?